Saturday, January 10, 2015

There is Always One

Children of the Americas has traveled to Guatemala for annual medical/surgical/dental and prosthetics teams for over twenty years. Many of our administrative staff volunteers are there now, preparing for our upcoming team in San Benito starting next Saturday when we will meet over a thousand patients, and out of those, we will potentially donate surgery to well over one hundred women and children. While working in the Guatemalan hospitals, our nurses, who staff our patients 24/7 during the week we are there, frequently become close to a particular patient. In our minds, this patient, whoever it is, is the one we were meant to be in Guatemala for. Perhaps it is our way of attaching meaning to our week of volunteering; a difficult but rewarding time of being outside of our comfort zone while trying to make the world of health care a better one for our patients. 
In 2012, baby Steven was "the one."

Maybe it was his eyes...big and brown and laced with eyelashes that quickly won him the title of Snuffleupagus, the Sesame Street character of days gone by. Or it could have been his mother, who had gone through months of hospitalizations with her baby, losing sleep, adequate nutrition and time with her family while making it all seem much easier than it was. Her faith was steadfast, her parenting exemplary and she spent many hours helping other mothers on the ward who had babies just as sick as hers was.
We left the hospital six days later, inspired and in awe of her strength.Before departing, COTA nurse Kelley filled a bag with infant vitamins, food for his mother, formula for Steven, Tylenol, clothing and many hugs to get Steven's mother through the upcoming months. Nursing student Erin collected the bib you see in the photo, as well as some donated baby quilts. Jennifer gave some funds to keep Steven's mother fed while he was hospitalized. Dr. Cottrill, our pediatric cardiologist, evaluated Steven's health care needs. 

 Simone, our ultrasound volunteer, scanned his kidneys to determine the cause of his chronic infections. He wasn't one of our COTA patients (he had been hospitalized for weeks before we came), but he quickly became "our" baby. Many hands and hearts came together for this little one.
After leaving Guatemala, we kept up with Steven and his mother. Some of our nurses sent money to his family to cover the cost of more hospitalizations and formula that the family couldn't afford. We celebrated his first steps and were saddened by the news when Steven was diagnosed with a chronic lifelong illness. 

We recently received this photo of Steven, who is now three years old and thriving thanks to dedicated and determined parents. We are not sure who the special patient we are meant to be in Guatemala for will be this year, but we do know that our COTA nurses, support staff and doctors will make each patient feel like they are the one we were meant to be in Guatemala for this year. 

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Meet Bobby

This is Bobby. He lives in Western Kentucky, he is a retired educator, husband to an amazing woman and he has a heart of gold. If he were asked to describe himself, Bobby would be at a loss for words, because he is also modest and quiet in nature. Guided by principles and integrity, Bobby feels better when he is allowed to do his good works on the sidelines, driven by the need to do things correctly rather than for acknowledgement. 

All of the above may explain why, in the year 2000, Bobby found the courage to board this plane in Guatemala City, which was as you can see in the photo, literally held together by tape. Flying on this particular plane was the only way that Bobby could continue to travel with and volunteer for the medical mission trip he had signed up for. We had to get from one end of Guatemala to the other, there were hundreds of patients waiting for us at our destination and working on his first Children of the Americas team was what he had agreed to do. 
Bobby is a man of his word.
He got on the plane. 
I wish I could report that the ride was uneventful, and that the tape on the door had nothing to do with the integrity of the airplane but I would be wrong. 
Twenty minutes into the flight the plane warning lights and sirens went off, indicating that there was a problem with either the instruments or the engines. Since he didn't speak Spanish, he wasn't sure what the problem was, but Bobby did participate in the group prayer; volunteers strapped into their cargo seats on the perimeter of the metal interior of the plane, holding hands, sweating profusely and praying.
One tense aircraft landing later Bobby and 35 other COTA volunteers had safely arrived in northern Guatemala, and the rest, as they say, is history. 

But in this case, the story goes on. Bobby and his wife Lisa will be wearing our team t-shirts again this January when our organization arrives in Guatemala once again to do what we do best; caring for the medical, surgical, dental and prosthetic needs of rural women and children. I've lost count of how many team t-shirts Bobby has worn but I know it is over a dozen. His trips in between teams to attend to the needs of former foster children in Guatemala have lead to quite a few more airline landings in Central America. He and Lisa have packed medical supplies, loaded trucks, escorted foster children internationally and provided medically fragile foster care to many of our Guatemalan patients. 
Bobby would be the first person to tell you that our entire organization is made up of people just like him. People who give up time, money, vacation leave and resources to make sure that our patients in Guatemala get quality medical care. And he would be right. 
A donation of any size helps us restore health to some of the most medically 
fragile people in Guatemala, because people like Bobby make sure we don't have to use financial donations to cover administrative costs. Our participation in the GoodGiving Challenge this year is ending in two days. 
Thankfully, our time with volunteers like Bobby continues. 
To learn more about how you can help, click the link below. 

Thursday, November 20, 2014

When a Part of You is Missing

Children of the Americas is not just busy in the final months of the year, when we are preparing for a surgical/medical/dental team. Our board stays involved throughout the days, which become weeks and then months and suddenly it is "Team Time" once again.

There are board meetings to prepare for and attend, supply procurement and packing to do, and many, many bits of conversations, written correspondences, and quarterly reports to attend to. Crates to pack, flights to book; Excel lists to create and check off; medications to order; t-shirts to order; badges to get the idea. Taking 100 + volunteers to Guatemala is a major undertaking. The emails are incessant, time consuming but vital.
One of those recent correspondences came from an American physician volunteering in Guatemala named Bill. He found Children of the Americas through our website. Bill had a request for assistance from our organization, not for himself, but for a teenager named Juan who is missing a leg following surgical amputation from a cancer diagnosis. 
Without medical insurance, social services or affordable prosthetic labs, amputees in Guatemala live a life of very limited potential. In a country where physical labor is often the only source of income, limited mobility can have severe social and economic implications. The most sought after donation we bring on our teams are mobility assistance items; wheelchairs, crutches, and splints. Most valued of all are prosthetic legs. Unfortunately, they are also the most expensive item for our organization to provide. 
Children of the Americas is participating in the GoodGiving Challenge until December 12th. Our fundraiser comes at an important time as we prepare for our next surgical/medical and prosthetic team in Guatemala from January 17-22. 

The request came too late for Juan, who died two weeks after our email networking with Dr. Bill. We are comforted with knowing that his parents appreciated our efforts to help him. There are many more patients in Guatemala waiting for our help, like the boy on the left. Without an income, his mother has no hope of affording a prosthetic leg for her son, or even a comfortable crutch. 
The importance of your financial gift during this fundraising period is easy to define. 
It is simply life-changing. 
You are one click away from making a difference. 

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Inspired By One of Our Own

What you see below is a partial reprint of an article that was published in our Lexington newspaper, The Herald Leader, about our former board president, Carol Cottrill.
Yes, she is in a wheelchair.
And no, that doesn't stop her from working full time as a pediatric cardiologist, actively participating in her grandchildren's lives, serving on numerous boards throughout Lexington and serving as our Children of the Americas Board President for the last four years. Nothing has stopped Carol from traveling to our medical teams so that she could work a 14 hour day seeing Guatemalan children who needed her expertise.
Carol is the essence of  someone who is living a life of service, and she inspires others to do so. 

Our volunteers each have challenges of their own. We use our personal finances and non-paid vacation leave to travel to Central America every January so that we can offer medical and surgical care to the women and children of rural Guatemala. We leave behind spouses and children and we come home tired but inspired, not only by our co-workers like Carol but by our patients, who wait hours if not days to receive the medical care that is not available to them otherwise. 

Funding for the COTA teams is raised one dollar at a time. It never comes easy, but we are not used to easy: working in Guatemala, just like raising  the funds to do so, is a tremendous challenge. 
Children of the Americas is currently participating in the GoodGiving Challenge fundraiser. 

A donation to COTA during this fund drive will not only help remove the financial obstacles of doing our work, but it will have a direct benefit on children like Ana (R), who is awaiting our surgical donation for a cleft lip repair in January. 

Clicking on the link (above) will not only allow you to make a secure donation to COTA, but it will take you to our profile page of our board member profiles and administrative information. 
You donations will be even more important on Thursday November 13th at 11AM, which is the Banker's Challenge. 
A match pool of $15,000 will be available. Individual donations between $10 and $1,000 are eligible for a $0.50 match on every dollar donated until the $15,000 match pool is exhausted.
 We hope you will be inspired to help. 

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Children of the Americas partners with GoodGiving to Raise Funds

Years ago, one of the Children of the Americas board members was selected by a Lexington television channel to be interviewed by a newscaster about our program. The Let's Do Lunch program was a popular one here in Central KY, and the purpose is to give the viewer a "snack" version on a topic of interest. Our board member found the experience to be frustrating; Children of the Americas is a little organization with a big focus; it couldn't be explained in two minutes of airtime. 
Thanks to The Bluegrass Foundation, our program now has a complete and transparent profile available to potential donors. Everything a donor might want to know about Children of the Americas, from board member profiles to financial statements, is posted here:

We are very pleased to announce our participation in the GoodGiving Guide Challenge starting today! Funds raised will go toward our annual surgical, dental and medical teams, held every January in rural Guatemala. The GoodGiving Guide Challenge is an annual online giving campaign throughout Fayette County that benefits local nonprofits, like COTA, and is hosted by the Blue Grass Community Foundation and Smiley Pete Publishing. We are honored to be among the 155 nonprofits that were carefully screened and then chosen to participate. 

Why is our work in Guatemala so important? 

So that Manuel can get his cleft lip repaired

So that she and her mother could receive life-changing medication

And she can have her cleft repaired and a prosthetic provided.

Please consider a donation to Children of the Americas during this campaign. These photos are of real patients, all of whom have a true need for humanitarian assistance that is only available through the donation of our medical care in rural Guatemala. What a great chance for you to create a direct and meaningful change in the life of the patients who await our medical team in January. 

Friday, October 17, 2014

High School Latin Class and Guatemala

His name was Mr. Abner and he was in a word, formidable. Stately dressed and dry as toast, he stood in front of our ninth grade class and tried to inspire our Central- Kentucky-selves to see the wisdom in learning an ancient language that none of us could find use for. Most if not all of his reluctant students were only signed up for Latin Class because it was a requirement for the college tract. Without it, we knew we couldn't travel to the big cities and become college students. So we sat. Day after day learning word genders, noun cases, four verb conjugations and six tense formations.

Me, not so much.
In fact, very little.
As in, I had to repeat the class because I failed it the first semester.
A big fat D on my report card. I cried for days. 
I hated Latin class. I didn't understand it, not just in a small way but so much so that I truly thought something was wrong with me. I was terrified each and every day of Mr. Abner's class.

Fast forward to my first trip to Guatemala, in the year 2000. Exactly 25 years after my high school graduation the ball of fear in my stomach felt just like when I had to stand up in front of Latin classmates and recite words I barely understood.

But this time it wasn't just the language issues, it was bugs and heat and the responsibility of caring for pediatric patients without my usual nursing tools. I was 2,000 miles from home, working with people I had never met in a country I wasn't sure I wanted to be in and just like in Latin class, I was being pushed to my limits, both physically and emotionally. The food was strange (black beans for breakfast...really?), I didn't speak Spanish and worse, everyone else on the team seemed just fine. Once again, I was an odd duckling in a pond of gloriously blissful swans who were happily volunteering their week away while I lost weight and sleep. I was frozen in fear, determined that if I every made it home to the states, I would NEVER, EVER go back to Guatemala.

Soothing patients who have waited hours in line

 Anyone who has ever taken Latin Language class, challenged themselves with a fitness goal, or accomplished what seemed to be an impossible task, knows that it is the difficult times that grow us as people. Nobody ever grew wiser, emotionally deeper or spiritually stronger from eating hot fudge sundaes and watching endless days of reality TV. It takes moments like these (below) to reach down deep and grow yourself up.

Telling a mother of a cleft baby that her infant is too sick for surgery

Working in 100 degree operating rooms

Trying to stay organized in chaotic conditions
Pushing through the neck and back pain so that more dental patients can get relief 
Standing in sorrow with desperate mothers
These are the moments, the hours, the days on a medical Children of the Americas team that root us in the soil of personal growth. 

I struggled through Latin class, barely making it out with a passing grade. I'm still challenged  each time I go to Guatemala as are most of our COTA volunteers. There are always certain patients that are the hallmark of our week there, the ones that stand out, who we were meant to be there for. The ones that are difficult, and who we learn the most from. 
Performing surgery on scared children

Life has come full circle. I use Latin word derivatives often in my medical work, and I've come to value Mr. Abner and all he taught me, about not just language, but fortitude and overcoming fear. Our Children of the Americas colleagues keep going to Guatemala: Henry has flown over 60 trips, Rosemary over 25, I just finished my 18th. 
Each time we go, we know we will be overcome for a moment or a day, and that some particular patient will create within us the need to reach deeper than we thought we could. 
Which of course, is one of the best reasons to go. 

(The name of the well-meaning Latin teacher has been changed to protect his reputation)

Monday, September 29, 2014

The Power of One

Children of the Americas volunteers are used to hearing this statement:
" I would like to help, but I don't know how." 
Becky never let the "how" stop her. As a recent widow, Becky could have  concentrated on her own issues. She made the conscious choice to do the opposite. Becky has no medical training, but she cared for her sick husband for years. Following Sonny's passing, Becky donated his unused medical items to COTA. She also took it upon herself to purchase many pairs of shoes so that little Guatemalan feet would not go bare in January when we host our next medical team. 

Forrest (below, right) took the "how" one step further when he traveled to Guatemala with us last January. At an employee at Toyota, Forrest had no medical training, but he has a big heart and knows how to network. 
 After spending several days in Guatemala in January of 2014 fitting children with donated shoes, he was impacted by the obvious need for adequate footwear in a country full of parents who could not afford to use precious income for shoes for their children. Forrest came home determined to make the miracle of new shoes happen for hundreds of children. He wrote to shoe companies. He posted on Facebook. He made phone calls. He made more phone calls. And it worked. Hundreds of children's feet will benefit from his diligence in January. 

Mary Cheek (L) from Indiana has amazing talents as a seamstress. She and her friend Marie Kerr have spent many  hours making hand-made quilts for our pediatric patients on our medical teams. Hundreds of blankets and baby bibs later, their care and concern has brightened the day of many of our patients. 

When we need Spanish translators in Guatemala for our medical teams, Bernice (R), a long-term resident of Guatemala, stays with us for some intense days of translating. She works countless hours, eats little and sleeps less so that our patients understand their discharge instructions and leave feeling secure in their knowledge of post-operative medical care.

Every person in this photo (above) is a Children of the Americas volunteer, using their financial resources and vacation leave to meet the needs of our patients for a week every January and many weekends of volunteer hours in-between trips to Central America.

Patients in Guatemala waiting in long lines for a chance at care

The need for our services in Guatemala is endless, but so is the enthusiasm and energy of our volunteers.

Friday, September 12, 2014

Children of the America's Services Needed Now More Than Ever

 Guatemala rarely creates international concern. So when stories like this (below) start inundating BBC, Reuters, ABC, Fox News Latino and other news services, those of us who volunteer on behalf of the well being of Guatemala's people take note. 
This recently published article does an excellent job of demonstrating the cause and effect of a current weather system that is causing deep concern in Central America. 
(Rest of story here) 

 Guatemala’s government has declared a state of emergency in 16 of the 22 provinces, as Central America suffers one its worst droughts in decades. The few dollars a month that a rural Guatemalan family earns is no longer sufficient for even basic nutritional needs as food prices escalate. 
During college, COTA medical volunteers studied Abrahan Maslow's pyramid of basic human needs. Maslow, a renowned psychologist from the 1930's determined that food, water, and shelter were the most critical physiological needs for a human being.
 In the many years of traveling throughout Guatemala with medical teams, our volunteers have seen thousands of examples of what happens to the human body when these three fundamental needs can't be met, and scarce financial resources are not available for medical care. 

Here are a few examples:
Wounds don't heal
Cleft babies who can't breastfeed become malnourished for lack of infant formula.

Mother's can't afford life-saving surgeries

Pediatric tumors can't be cured

Children of the Americas has stepped into the role of providing donated medical, surgical, dental and prosthetic care for the citizens of Guatemala who have limited access and funding for these essential services. Happily, all of the patients in the above photos were successfully cared for through our donations of care. 
With news spreading on the nutritional and economic effects of the Guatemalan food staple shortages, our work is more important than ever. We anticipate a busy and effective medical team in January of 2015 when we next travel to Guatemala. 
As medical volunteers, we are not equipped to deal with the food shortages in Guatemala; we nourish the body in different ways, and most importantly, we help save vital financial income for families through the donation of our medical care. 
The drought and ensuing food shortages that will come of this weather system are not for COTA alone to fix. We will do our part, using our talents and humanitarian efforts to ease the medical care burden on the women and children of Guatemala. 
We will go into Team 2015 doing what we do best, with hopes that the international news reports will create a call to action from other governments and organizations to help meet the needs of the citizens of Central America as they struggle with this historic drought. 

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Good News

The last few weeks since the passing of our dear friend Carlos Gomez have been hard. The hundreds of Children of the Americas board members and volunteers who knew Carlos memorialized him and said good-bye to him in their own personal way, but the sadness lingers. 
So it felt particularly poignant and uplifting, to see the headlines in Guatemala's main newspaper, the Prense Libre. (Link below)
Newspaper article
Douglas, the young man in the article below, was one of our COTA patients in January. Born with an arm and a leg that never functioned properly meant that Douglas either had to be carried or transported via wheelchair wherever he went in Guatemala. When we saw him in our clinic, he was mentally and physically tired of his mobility limitations. He made the brave and challenging decision to have his useless leg amputated. 

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

A Tribute to Carlos

He was humble and sweet and kind all in one bundle of a handsome young man who didn't know how attractive he really was. At age twenty-four he seemed younger, his touch of innocence radiated within the confines of an environment that created old men from young ones. He was proud of his American roots, grown within a Kentucky foster family who nurtured the best of him at the hardest of times in his life, while he endured painful surgical repairs to a body scared by electrocution burns acquired as a child in his home country of Guatemala. During his time in Kentucky he learned of unconditional love, faith, friendship and of the possibilities available to him if he worked hard. His foster family fostered more than his return to physical health; they nurtured his spirit, educated his mind and returned him to Guatemala as a whole person who was prepared for the life he was meant to lead in his home country. 
Foster mother Jennifer Martin and family
He took their gifts and grew himself up, always with one foot in both worlds, under the guidance of his employers at Mayan Families, his friends in the organization Children of the Americas, and his foster parents, Jennifer and Charlie Martin. 
He was Carlos Gomez. 
Carlos Gomez. How many men share this name in Guatemala? Gomez is like the surname Smith in the states, common and abundant. 
Hundreds if not thousands of people knew better. 
There was nothing common about him. 
Carlos always sought excellence within himself and his work. Through his job opportunities at Mayan Families in Guatemala, he became a talented carpenter, but he was most proud of his scholastic achievements. 
He took the life lessons instilled in him by those who cared for him in Kentucky and in Guatemala and he grew them through his own determination to prove to us that he was worthy of our concern. 
He was taught, and remembered well, that life is not defined by your past, but rather by your efforts to overcome. Carlos came from a social background that would have served as an excuse for most, but instead became an experience used to do better and become more than he might have without the guidance of many who cared for him.
He loved the organization that gave him back his health. When he first traveled to the United States, escorted by COTA Executive Director Rosemary Vance in August of 2001, Carlos began a series of four trips to Kentucky for donated surgeries. Most who knew him had little idea of the extent of his burn injuries and the wound care issues he had up until his passing.  He was grateful and respectful for the efforts on his behalf, and he understood, in a way unique to him, that the best form of gratitude was to give back to those who had helped him. Carlos's endless enthusiasm for helping on Children of the Americas teams sustained us when our energy lagged and inspired us in the wee hours of the mornings as he translated for our night shift nurses. During teams he slept little, ate less and worked hard so that he could make every moment count with the team members he loved. 
Carlos, always happiest on a COTA Team (2008)
In his honor, Children of the Americas is creating The Carlos Fund, which will be used to help other Guatemalan team translators with the financial burdens they incur while volunteering for our medical teams. Like Carlos, these volunteers loose a week of income, travel at their own expense and work long hours to assist us with patient care. 
Carlos would be honored to think that in his passing, just as he did in life, he continues to give back. 
Contributions can be sent by clicking the donate button to the right, and making note that the donation should go to:

Saturday, July 5, 2014

Happy Feet in Guatemala

Children of the Americas Team 2014 volunteers have been back from Guatemala for almost six months now, but there are many times that we find our minds wandering back to the patients we helped in our favorite Central American country. Families like this one (below), who traveled to see our American doctors so that their children could see a pediatrician. They had heard about our free vitamins and medicines, our compassionate hearts and  talented doctors.
A family patiently awaits medical care from COTA doctors
Families who waited for hours, patiently and gently while they tended to their children and visited with each other. It is one of the things we love about our Guatemalan patients during the annual dental/surgical/medical teams we take each January; the patient, calm people who cheerfully wait hours for us without the expectation often found among America's sick. 

Until we started giving out free shoes. 
That's when the energy of the courtyard changed to a sense of urgency. 

Waiting in line for donated shoes
Shoes in Guatemala are often an expense that families have a hard time affording. The majority of Guatemala's school-aged children walk miles a day, up trails that are slippery with mud during the rainy season. They need shoes that fit, and socks to prevent blisters that then become infected. We see all of the medical issues in our clinics that bare feet exposed to the elements bring, including parasites transmitted through skin.
Without shoes, children are not allowed to attend school. Without school, economic limitations have a lifelong effect. It seems so simple, but most of our patients parents have an average family income of less than a dollar a day. Purchasing shoes for even a few children every year cost a father more money than he makes in a month. 

This explains why, when COTA volunteers opened our boxes of donated shoes in the courtyard of the hospital we were working in, the karma of the hospital grounds changed. 
There was a sudden charge in the atmosphere, almost like mothers could smell the leather, and we quickly realized that caring for our Guatemalan pediatric patients meant keeping their feet covered. At our last board meeting we voted to add shoe donations to our list of things we will provide for future patients. We saw over 2,000 patients in January, and there is no way to provide shoes for all the children we will see on our next team in January 2015. But we can try.

COTA volunteers are used to not having enough...Guatemala is such a land of scarcity that we could fill a thousand containers of shoes and not fit every little foot that needs them. But you can help us make a few feet happy by doing the following:
  • Ask you friends and family to donate new children's shoes for us to take to Guatemala in 2015. (Used shoes create customs issues)
  • Ship or drop them off to: Jody Greenlee,1781 Eastwood Drive, Lexington, KY 40502
  • Do a shoe drive for our patients among your church group, book club or with co-workers. 
  • Purchase children's socks for us to give out with shoes. 
  • Post this blog on your Facebook page and write a post asking for shoe donations.  
  • Shoe donations need to arrive by September 1st in order to be added to our container. 
Sturdy athletic shoes, children's rainboots, sandals and lace shoes preferable. 
Thank you in advance for helping COTA with this project for next January.

Sunday, May 25, 2014

Things Will Be OK

Most of the Children of the Americas board members have hosted medically fragile Guatemalan children in our 
homes as foster children. When one of our own is preparing to return one of our foster children back to their Central
American parents we understand what they are going through. The sleepless nights with a sick baby who isn't yours
biologically pales in comparison to returning that same baby, who now feels like your own, to his or her parents.
Compounding the list of worries are the conditions our foster children return to: seldom do they have running water,
concrete floors or electricity, and almost always they live far from competent medical care should they have a recurrence of their physical issues.
All of the above is reason enough for many people decline the opportunity to open heart and hearth to a sick child. 
Nurturing a sick foster child creates invisible heart strings that stay forever attached. Being willing to travel on 
this emotional journey is not for the weak. Below is the story of the return of Ceele, our most recent returnee in our 
foster program, and two very emotionally brave foster parents.

 "I am not sure how many of you know but Warren and I will be returning 
Celee to her family in Guatemala on Friday. This will not be an easy 
transition for anyone concerned. She has been told that she is going 
back to her mother and we talk about it and show her photos all the time
 but I am not sure she really grasps the concept that she will be 
leaving Bebe and Papa B. She knows there is something going on that is 
different and she has been clingy and a bit bratty the last couple days.
 Who can blame her though. She has become very comfortable here and she 
has been a joy to take care of. She cannot say PAPA B so she has 
shortened it to POP which she screeches every time he comes home so you 
can imagine how tightly wound around her little finger he is. POP is 
going to miss her a lot as am I. She has really become quite the 
personality in her 7 months with us and her devilish smile will be 
greatly missed. She appears to have the best outcome surgically of the 3
 girls we have had with this problem. She seems to have more of the 
normal nerves and muscles that these kids are usually missing which 
should bode well for toilet training and less leakage in the future. 
Keep us in your thoughts. We meet with the parents on Sunday and go to 
her village on Monday."
Bev (foster mom)
A few days later, Bev wrote this:
" This was the easiest transition we have ever experienced... Amazing as 
that sounds. Celee was very nervous on Friday and got upset when either 
one of us was out of sight. Saturday was spent with Cristy and Dr. Marco
The Reunion
and she was much more relaxed. Sunday we went to a resort near her village and after several hours her parents arrived by a micro bus. They had been warned that she might not remember them so they were in tears when we entered the restaurant at the resort. I immediately went to give the mom a hug. Celee was walking with Warren and her mother held out her arms and Celee slowly went to her. She sat in her lap for ten minutes just staring at me as if to say "I know I belong here but I am going to miss you".  After ten minutes she was giving her mom a run for her money playing and laughing. It was so encouraging to watch. The trip to her village was over the worst roads I have ever been on. She will be very isolated but Dr. Marco is not too far away and the parents know they can call him with any questions. There are more stories... more than my typing skills will allow. I do have many photos tho. I could not have asked for a better transition although we will miss her a lot. She is no longer in Cherry Hill but she is in a home filled with love. Bev."
( Below written by Warren Brandwine, Ceele's foster father and COTA board member. )
"Well, things went amazingly better than expected. We stayed in a little hotel 
not too far from the road to where the parents live. They came to the hotel 
Sunday afternoon and, as instructed, just sat and let Ceele wander around and 
get used to things. She recognized her parents and sat on her mom's lap for a 
while and things progressed nicely from there. By dinner time she and the 
parents were running around having a great time. We asked Ceele where she wanted 
to sleep and she elected to stay with her parents. Late that night there was a 
crying baby knocking on our door but it was a better start than we anticipated.

Monday afternoon we drove to the parents house. Two inches on the map; two and a 
half hours of driving. Good road to bad roads to horrible roads to no road to a 
path. When we got out of the cars there were at least 60 people crowded around 
us, all in native garb, incredibly excited. They all knew the story of Ceele and 
she was the first person from the village to go abroad. Some people had told the 
parents that we would sell her organs and they would never see her again.

Music playing, they all crowded around and walked us to the house. We spent 
about two hours there and these people stayed there every minute. They watched 
while we ate, while we talked. When I took the baby out for a walk, the crowd 
parted like the sea. When we sat down, they all gathered around and stared."
"It was very hot and humid. We were all sweating. We said our good-by's, they all stood on rocks and hills and trees and waved. Ceele stayed inside with the mother. I do not know what happened after that. The mom cannot read or write and speaks only K'iche. I think she is quite smart and will be very careful and thorough in her care of the baby. Unfortunately, medical help is several hours away. They have one electric light and one outlet. A small refrigerator would blow the fuse. The older sister, Catarina, is 15 years old, smart, pretty and very devoted to Ceele.
 I think things will be OK." 

Monday, May 5, 2014

COTA Nurses

The National Nurses Association recognizes May 6th as National Nurses Day. In keeping with a similar holiday a few days later, COTA would like to think that as well as Mother's Day, National Nurses Day should be every day.
The nursing profession is viewed through the prism of the need at the moment. If you have no medical concerns, and you just happen to know a neighbor or relative who is a nurse, public sentiment tends to see nurses as emotionally connected and overall friendly people. Kind, caring and competent would be three adjectives that come to mind. 
However, if you or a loved one are sick, and you suddenly find yourself in an emotionally charged and frightening medical situation, your view of the nurse assigned you can change. This person, once a stranger, is now responsible for the life of yourself or your loved one. Looking through the spectacles of fear can change our outlook and our reactions. Many COTA board members and volunteers have stood by the bedside of ill relatives in the last year, we understand this fear both professionally and personally. 

How would we as patients, feel if our nurses didn't speak our language, came from another country and didn't always understand the nuances of our culture? 

Guatemalan women waiting for care in COTA clinic
What would make us sit in long lines, waiting for care that we may or may not understand, hoping for a chance to be attended to by people unlike ourselves? 
There is only one reason: trust. Believing that your nurse, whether a stranger or a neighbor, will be:
and Competent

 Happy Nurses Day to to all of our Children of the Americas nurses. You make the world a better place both here and in Guatemala.